Because women should deny or downplay the very same biological and physiological realities that MtT (male to trans) people rely upon to alter their body to match their feelings. Makes sense (see: sarcasm). Ladies, they actually want you to stop talking about the very same body parts that many of them will gladly spend money on to achieve or simulate, through either surgery and/or hormones. And if you don’t comply, you are oppressing them. That is the “logic”. So, I wonder. Do they have an issue with MtT spokespersons like Jenner, Mock, or Cox getting fake boobs and other surgeries to change their physical appearance to feel more like a woman? Is that ok?  Or do they reserve their temper tantrums only for when women focus on female anatomy? So only MtT people are allowed the freedom to focus on the female anatomy, through surgeries, hormones and obsessive renaming and other covetous behavior. But women can’t make a sign about vaginas? How is that ok? The better question is how did they manage to convince themselves that that kind of hypocrisy was ok? What kind of sorcery…Hmmm, they sound a lot like, gee, I don’t know, men (i.e. I can obsess over your body parts but you can’t). I mean, were they as outraged over Trump’s statement “grab them by the pussy” as they are about women saying pussy? Was Trump accused of being “trans exclusive” when he made that comment?

And this is progress how? And once again, for the record- I have yet to see FtT arguing with men not to discuss their “dicks”, their prostates or their penises. They are expected to abide by the already established male code of conduct, unlike MtT folks and their very aggressive “supporters” who seem to think they make the rules.  I have yet to see two men argue with each other that “men have vaginas, too” but I routinely see gullible broads arguing with other women that “women have penises, too”. Women stay getting got, I swear.
Something tells me it’s the MtT folks who are too broke, or too young, or too non-committal to get the full on enchilada surgery to look more like a woman who are the most pissed about this. Because I can’t imagine one would get surgery to make their penis look more like a vagina or take hormones to grow fuller breasts would complain about women saying “vagina.” or “tits”.  If they are, then that is someone who is chronically unhappy and is a perpetual hater, plain and simple and no amount of sympathizing can change that.
(Note- I have my own opinions on the Women’s March but that’s beyond the scope of this post).

Update on 1/27: I learned that rapist Cherno Biko was present at the Woman’s March and spoke. (I’d like to point out that there were two Black MtT folks present to represent Black womanhood…where was Jenner at, tho…*sips tea). No one has said a peep about Biko’s presence, and yet all this outrage over women talking about vaginas. Cherno raped a FtT (female to trans) person in order to force a damn pregnancy. Ok, let’s take a minute to compare what Cherno did to what the tweets in the article are upset at women for doing by discussing vaginas: Cherno obviously made the decision to remove the condom to force a pregnancy based on a B-I-O-L-O-G-I-C-A-L reality of the victim. In that moment, which was traumatizing and the victim will forever be impacted by Biko’s selfish, entitled, abusive actions, the female anatomy of the victim was centered. (but again, signs and vagina hats are violence?) Biko did not try to force a pregnancy on a MtT person, but on a FtT person. Why? Again, because of biology.  Cherno focused on the victim’s vagina and uterus when choosing to commit rape to selfishly try to continue his bloodline without consent. Yet, that goes completely unaddressed and ignored so that folks can slam women for making a vagina hat. Admittedly, it might seem like a silly thing to wear. Not my personal cup of tea, but it is not violence. But trying to force a pregnancy on someone is. And it was an oppressive and aggressive act that was done based on the victim’s body parts, the same ones the women at the march were making signs for and they did so because they/we live in a world where, on a whim, a male force can and will reduce us to just those parts as he sees fit (again, see Biko…Trump).  As I stated above, folks seem to be trying to force this paradigm where MtT people can hyper focus on and center female anatomy to suit their own needs and wants to make themselves feel more comfortable in their own bodies, but as soon as women center the very same anatomy and biological parts for any reason whatsoever, that is suddenly an act worth condemning as “oppressive” and violent? That is repackaged sexism and domination over women. We already make enough concessions within this society as it is to placate men. So, that’s gonna be a no for me dawg.

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Black woman. Birthright Woman. Twenty-something. Writer. Thinker. Dancer. Singer. Lawyer. Matriarchist. Afro-wearer. History and genealogy enthusiast. Bronx born, Harlem rooted, Queens adopted & Brooklyn educated. This blog is where I share my thoughts on the world.

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